Genuine feminism is more than just gender equality. Gender is connected with so many other things that can affect someones livelihood. Race, socioeconomic status, sexuality, physical and/or mental disabilities are just some of the things that intersect with gender. As an intersectional feminist it is important that your ideologies and rhetoric are inclusive :)
Smash the patriarchy and with it bring down the misogynistic constraints put on all our women, rather than question and critique of one's femininity (too much? not enough?) let women exist as the women they choose.
Feminism is not a fight between male and female, it is advocacy for the voiceless, it is demanding fairness for one's self, it is eradicating the "need" to dominate or be dominated, and it is the ability of choice. Feminism is for everyone.